During the bargaining stage many of us are still in denial that the loss really is happening. Looking back on when I believe the miscarriage happened, I remember saying please let this be normal pain I am experiencing. This was my first pregnancy and I really did not know what I should be expecting.
Some people may call this the prayer or I promise to be good stage of grieving. During this stage many people make promises to themselves or a higher power in an attempt to deal with the loss.