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New Beginnigs

This page is now a story that started once upon a time, in land not so far away. A family of three, mommy, daddy and little man learned that they were going on a quest to grow their family. This page is the summary of this journey and the gateway to the Blog about it.

My trying again after loss Blog
Every Story has a beginning, a middle and an end.  This story began January 1st 2014 as we decided that we were ready to try again for another child. It took us a few months of trying we were fortunate to become pregnant. It is amazing how the journey to parenthood unfolds.  I have found that when we were trying to conceive it seemed like a life time waiting for that plus sign and now we are over half way done this pregnancy and closer to meeting our baby girl. I wonder if she will have my brown hair or be a blond like her brother?

  • February 27th - LMS  or the date my doctors has used to calculate our Due date - December 4th 2014
  • March 28th - Talked to the OB's Office and now have an Ultrasound booked and Blood Work.
  • March 28 to April 4 - Blood test to check HCG levels. This was done every two days for a week to see if the levels were increasing as they should. Looks good we are having a viable pregancy .
  • April 3rd - First ultrasound. They could see that the pregnancy was in the uterus where it should be which was great. The baby was not big enough to see the heartbeat yet.
  • April 11 - Heart Beat can be seen. Now we can breath a sigh of relief.
  • May 1st - First Prenatal visit.  Review of past history, taking of weight and reviewing  of the visit schedule.
  • May 28 - Another ultrasound. This one was to check the nucleal translucency. This allows the doctor to check the risk of genetic abnormalities such as downs syndrome.
  • MAY 29TH - doctors visit. We got to hear the heartbeat and it was 153 BPM.
  • June 26th - Doctors Visit
  • July 16th - Next Ultrasound date and its A GIRL.
  • JUly 24 - Doctors visit. Got a chance to ask about her standing orders and thoughts on Cesarean sections.
  • Aug 15 - Doctors visit to check on a strange pain. Looks like we are not only having a baby but also a Hernia.
  • date ? - Found out we have gestational diabetes
  • October 28th  - Another visit to the ER for fetal Assessment. We are 1 cm dilated and the cervix is thinned out a bit. Looks like I am done work and on medical till the baby comes. Stay in there baby.
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  • December 1st 2014 - Welcome baby Fionna